Day 5 in the NICU

 November 17, 2013

 He weighed in this morning at 7 lbs 12.5oz, 1 oz from birth weight!! 

   Thank heavens for nurses!!  With his feeding tube and him being able to take bottles, the nurses have fed him at night either through his tube or by bottle, and I have been able to sleep!  I feel much more refreshed!  I'm still a little tired, maybe it's my body playing catch up, but either way it is SO nice to be able to sleep and heal up a bit.  Jefferson is doing good.  His oxygen levels stay 30-40% which is good, they are not getting higher thank goodness!!

   He is still super lathargic and is really hard for him to stay awake to eat.  That's the main reason we have a feeding tube right now.  

  This is his day 5 of life, and he is just now getting a bath, yummy!   He absolutely loved it though!  Hopefully he will love the water just as much as his big sister does! 

   It's a little discouraging being here in the NICU.  I haven't seen my bed for days and I just want to bring him home!  I want to see my family.  Poor Stella doesn't ever want anything to do with me when she sees me.  It breaks my heart.  But at least I got to spend some quality time with her before Jefferson was born, while I was on bed rest.  I just want to get home and get settled into our new lifestyle as a family of 4!

All clean!! 

And one of my favorites, so far

Day 4 in NICU

November 16, 2013

    Jefferson had a much better day today!  He did really well and pretty much slept through the night while the nurse fed him through tube, only moving him to change his bum.  In the morning when I first went to see him he was much more alert and fed really well.  He keeps getting better and better when he eats from me.  He is finally starting to get it and he is doing better in putting his toung down and out of the way.  

   His oxygen levels were around 35 through the night.  Not too high, but he seems to be getting lower.  The Drs decided to put him on a schedule for every 3 hours and his feeding a changed from 45mils per feeding to 53mils.  In order to try and figure out how much he ate after nursing, we started to use a Breastfeeding scale before and after.  It weighs him and then figures out the difference of what he ate from me.  Then after weighing him we then know about how much more to feed him.  We then try with a bottle and see how much he will eat from there before getting too tired or uninterested, and then we feed the rest through his tube. This has been a good plan so far.  It seems to be helping his oxygen levels stay down and he is nursing better each time I feed him. With his heart defect he doesn't have any energy.  He is tired all the time and barely has enough energy to even eat.  It breaks my heart to see him work so hard and get tired so quickly.  Between his heart problem, low glucose the first couple of days, his PDA (I'll explain later) still being open, low temperatures at times, and his oxygen levels, poor guy is using all his energy just to breathe.

   He is such an amazing little dude and is a fighter.  Although it feels like forever, I know he needs to be here in the nicu to get him strong so he can come home.  We just absolutely adore him and cannot get enough!! 

    I feel guilty I have not been able to spend much time with my little princess, but hopefully since things are more under control with Jefferson I will get to see her more.  She got to hold her little brother today.  The NICU only lets her come for 15 minutes, 2 times a week, so she was really excited to get to hold and see him. She is going to be one amazing big sister to this little stud.  They are going to be the best of friends!

I LOVE his hair!!

Day 2 in the NICU

November 14, 2013

Jefferson is making a good transition into his new world.  His oxygen levels were amazing at night (and early morning) and was eating like a champ!  Although I'm not sure he was getting much from me.  I began trying to get my milk to come in started pumping after every feeding.  His glucose levels had been dropping from 60s to low 50s and they were concerned he wasn't not getting enough.  He also was not having enough wet diapers.  

   He has been able to maintain a good body temperature and was taken out of the heat beds and put into a crib bed.  He seems to like it, but he loves to be swaddled.  It's a little awkward with all the cords and attachments to him.  His poor heels had to be pricked still before every feeding and is so sore.  It breaks my heart, but I understand why it needs to be done.  What ever they need to do to keep him healthy so he can hopefully go home soon. He also needed more blood drawn for labs so he got poked in the hand for that.  He's so tough and took that like a champ.  

    He is such a great eater, I just hope I'm making enough for him.  I just don't want to have a low supply like I had with Stella.       I had been pumping after every feeding, so we started to feed him that milk through a nipple after I fed him to try to get his glucose up. He chugged down what ever extra I had in seconds.  

    His weight dropped.  He is 7lbs 5oz now.  But the Drs are not too worried since this is common with newborns.  But other than that he is a champ and keeps doing better each day.

He doesn't open his eyes for very long, so it's nice to get it on camera. 

Day 3 in NICU

November 15, 2013

   Today was a big day, pysically and emotionally.  I got kicked out of the hospital and after a few hours of trying to figure out where I was going to go, we decided to get a hotel close to the hospital so that I could still go and feed him.  

   It started out with bad news with his sats (oxygen levels) being low and had one wet diaper all night.  The Drs are worried he is dehydrated and isn't getting enough from just breast feeding.  So they decided to see how his morning feedings went and if he hadn't had any wet diapers they would place a feeding tube in him to help get the right amount in.  He only weighed 7lbs 4oz, which is too much lost since birth.  

    By mid afternoon, things still were not getting any better so the nurse put a feeding tube in.  With the tube they were able to draw back what was in his stomach to see how much he got.  Kinda gross, made me gag a bit when I first saw it.  The Drs figured he needs a minimum of 43 mils of milk each feedings.  On a good note my milk started to come in more so I was able to produce a little extra each time I pumped, than the 43 mils needed for one feeding. They also decided to put him on a 3 hour feeding schedule instead of an "ad lib" schedule, where we feed when he wakes up and is ready. 

    On another good note his glucose had been good numbers for the last couple feedings so they stopped the glucose teste before each feedings!!!  Yay!! Maybe his heels can begin to heal now.  Poor thing has blue and purple heels from being poked and had blood squeezed out of them.  

    Drew had Stella all day so I spent all day at the hospital alone.  I went back and forth from the hospital and hotel to rest and feed Jefferson.  I was able to do skin to skin with him.  This is such a special time and I highly recommend it to any parent.  There is something magical that happens when you do skin to skin.  Within seconds of putting him on my chest he just stared at me and stilled.  His eyes got big as he was listening to my heart.  Something familiar to him that he hadn't heard in a few days.  It was so sweet and I loved every minute of it.  

   The nurse and I decided since he had a busy day to just let him sleep through the night and feed him through his feeding tube.  I thought that the tube was another set back, but it actually was a blessing in disguise.  Jefferson was able to get some sleep and I was too!!  We went from 9pm to 6 am with all his feedings through a tube.  He did really well and I was told he didn't wake hardly at all and slept through the majority of the night.  Other than getting up to pump, I was able to get more than 3-4 hours of sleep.  It took so long to get up get to the hospital, get set up, feed him, pump after, clean up and get back to the hotel I was only getting an hour and half of sleep before I had to get up and be back to the hospital.  So it was heaven.  

   Here's a few more pictures of my sweet little boy! 

  

Day 1 of NICU

November 13, 2013

Jefferson is THE sweetest little guy ever.  He had been poked before every feedings on his heels, had an IV needle placed in his head, had blood drawn for genetics testing, and had a nose piece to give him oxygen.  Even after all that, he has been so quiet and mellow.  He hardly ever cries and is such a little champ.  

   His glucose levels have not been too bad today.  They have not been too low to need supplementing or an IV, so that is great news! He has been eating like a champ and had 6 poopy diapers in one day!  He is such a snuggler and loves to be held.  This is when his oxygen levels are at the highest.  He just loves to be held, and I just love to hold him! The Cardiologists came and checked out his heart.  Everything was looking good, considering the circumstances.  His oxygen had to be bumped up to 45% today.  But they are not too worried.  

    He is in the main NICU unit with all the tiny babies.  I felt weird walking in there every couple hours with all the babies that were fighting for their lives.  Every nurse and Dr that saw him said, "woah, what a big baby."  

   They got him stable and his oxygen levels regulated and they decided to move him to another room in the NICU that did not have such high risk babies. It was a good move.  The room is much quieter (other than crying babies, less noisy machines) and easier to access.  Babies are mostly in cribs, not incubators here.  Jefferson is still under a warmer for a bit longer, but he is doing so well!  He is so adorable and keep falling in love with him every second I get to hold him! 

Before all the poking and bruising.  :( 

Grandma Sherrie came to meet this little guy, and instantly fell in love! 

Welcome Welcome!!

We would like to introduce you to our little sweet angel:

Jefferson Daniel Warwood

This little guy was fortunate to be born on 11-12-13.  It just so happens to also be my Grandpa Tuckett's 80th birthday that day too!  Jefferson weighed in at 7lbs 13.6oz and was 20.5" long.  Being bigger and longer than Stella was, labor was easy and recovery has been even easier.  

    After all the drama and worry over, if I'd make it to the hospital in time, it is so nice to finally have all that anxiety over with so we can now focus on keeping him strong and healthy!  I am so grateful everything went as planned.  I hate uncertainty and it was so nice to be able to walk calmly into the hospital, get my antibiotics running (I was group B positive), after the 4th poke, and then pitocen going after 4 hours, and then really begin the labor process. I walked into the hospital having been dilated to a 5cm for 3 weeks.  Contractions were irregular but strong and made me have to stop what I was doing and breathe through it.  For having a low tolerance for pain I was able to handle contractions till I was 7+cm.  I got the epidural, and after the 2nd try it kicked in and worked on my left side.  Contractions suck with out pain meds.  I felt them on my right side after my water was broken and it was unbelievable how much it hurt.  I honestly do not know how people deliver babies without pain meds.  The anestithioligist came and did a quick change literally 2 minutes before I started to push.  Thank heavens for pain meds and for that to work, like a charm!  

Jefferson slid right out and went right to the team of Pedatricians and resuscitation specialist hands.  They worked on him quickly and wrapped him up and took him to the intermediate nicu.  I didn't get to hold him for several hours afterwords, but I was prepared for that.  I was able to go in and see him and hold him just before he was taken again to get an echo done in his heart.  

   They found another small hole between the bottom two chambers of his heart, but they expected it to go away within 24-48 hours.  He also was having trouble with his lungs and was out on oxygen.  About an hour later his oxygen levels were not improving so they took him to the NICU.  It was there I was able to finally feed him and snuggle with my sweet baby boy.  Between his oxygen levels and low glucose, he was being watched over very closely.  

   He is being well taken care of and I am so grateful for all of the amazing Drs, residents and nurses at the U that have taken such great care for my little angel.  

The Thrill Seekers!

The week is finally here.  This will be my last post before 3 becomes 4 and our lives get much crazier!  It has been a good last week being pregnant, but I am for sure ready to be done.  I really should not complain, because I know more women have much harder pregnancies than I do, but it has been a giant roller coaster and I'm just ready to get off.  If it's not one thing, something else got thrown on our tracks to throw us off our path.  But just like any amusement park, you get off one roller coaster, with the thrill and excitement still pumping through your veins, and you go jump on another one. So this roller coaster of a pregnancy will be ending in 2 short days, just in time for us to jump on another one, called 'Jefferson's heart journey!'  There will be lots if ups and downs, twists and turns, but we are ready for it.  Just as we put our faith and trust in the ride operators and engineers of the roller coasters we love, we are putting our faith and trust in our Heavenly Father, whom we love, to guide us and protect us on this next roller coaster we are about to jump head first onto.  We have prepared as much as we could ahead of time for this, we are now just ready to meet this little guy and welcome him into our family!